Sunday 18 June 2017

【电影】戏如人生

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今晚跟男友去看了一部刚刚上映的爱情电影-原谅他77次

看了之后就跟男友说, “我觉得看了这部电影我很多感想,也觉得自己从中反省了很多对于男人和女人之间的矛盾” 
他回说 “拜托,你不要那么幼稚好吗?这只不过是一部电影。并不代表什么!”

过后我们两人就在回家的路上讨论了这部电影里到底有什么是值得我们学习和反省的等等
在讨论的当儿,我坚持我的理念    就是   戏如人生,人生如戏

对于我这个香蕉(华人可是并没有受过华教)的男友来说,我的理念是幼稚的
因为他觉得戏都是虚构的 ,没什么好学习因为都不实际啊

可我一直都相信作家可以写出一个故事,背后一定是经历过类似的经验
对!故事里面一半可能是虚构的,可我坚持的相信另外一半都是作家本人经历过,也感受过所以才可以把一个故事写的那么完整。 

其实人与人之间的感情真的很奇妙。
虽然说每个人都是独特的,处理事情的方式都不一样
可你会发现在电影里很多时候演员说诠释出来的角色和挣扎,都是现实生活中我们有可能经历过的。

不懂大家有没有常常在看电影的时候 会有类似这样的反应
”这故事跟我的故事很像!” 
“这女主角所经历的跟我很相似!” 等等
我常常会这样。虽然对于我男友来说  电影里演的情节我都可以拿来跟我现实生生活做比较
可我觉得人都是一样的。事与物可能会有所不同   但是我觉得故事的背后都有一定得连贯性。

我觉得,对于这个讨论,没有谁对谁错
每个人有不一样的想法   每个人可以在不同的情况下互相吸收对方的好,反省和学习。。。
大家觉得呢?

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Saturday 17 June 2017

【人生】 迷路


在短短的几个月内,我经历了人生种种。。。 

有没有问过自己,我们到底为了什么而活? 
我试问过身边的家人朋友,给的答案都不一样。

有些人很直接的说,为了生存而活。
但也有人告诉我,无论怎样我们人就是为了自己而活。 

那,我们要怎么做才是为自己而活呢?

我是个普通的上班族。
每天朝九晚五,过着大多数人都过着的生活。
很多时候,自己会反问自己,那么拼干嘛?我到底是为了什么每天过着不是自己要的生活。

我日常行程就是起床,上班,回家,睡觉。这样一天就过了
渐渐的,就开始对生活厌倦了
每当这种情绪来跟我打招呼的时候我就会不断地对自己说,
”没关系,先苦后甜。苦尽甘来“

这7年来,我一直努力向上爬    觉得自己也有了小成就
直到两三个月前,我遇到了很大的难关
我为自己建立的堡垒就一夜之间倒了
一无所有

身边的人都安慰我说,这可能是我人生的轉淚點
可是不管我怎么挣扎,到现在也还是挣扎不出这个难关
那种感受是很痛苦的
好比在一个挤满人的十字路口 不懂往哪一个方向走



所以,重新找回自己
找到自己的热忱
为自己而活。。。

我决定了从零开始
找时间沉淀自己现在的情绪和所有
从新出发~

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Thursday 28 July 2016

[Skincare] HerbaLine Purifying Milky Lotion & Aloe Vera Gel



Hi guys! 

It has been a while since I update my blog. Today, I would like to share with you this amazing products that I've been using for about two months! 

As some of you may have heard about the brand, I will still want to do some introduction on the brand to those who aren't familiar about HerbaLine. 

HerbaLine isn't like those ordinary facial parlor. They have a very strong business philosophy of providing a "burden-free" spending and services to their customer. 

Basically, they don't practice course signing, product hard-selling in their saloon. Which are mostly customers are afraid of. Remember when I was much younger, I have visited a facial parlor in Penang with my mother. Those consultant were so scary that right after the facial session, they locked up in a "consultation room" and kept pushing their pricy product to us. 
XD 

Not sure in anyone can relate with me, most of the time when I visit a facial parlor, I am always worry about the product they used on my face. Afraid of being sensitive to the product, the beautician isn't skillful enough, which causes red patches on face. OR! painful extraction! TT___TT 

I think it is important for every individuals to know what kind of product they are suitable with. For example, I am alright with Asian brand (Korean, Japanese & Taiwanese) skincare products. Instead, I have problem with European brand product mostly. >< 

Ok, too long for an introduction. I will leave the link down below if you would like to understand more about HerbaLine. 

Below are my skin type & generally problem that've been troubling me. 
Skin Type : Combination Skin. 
(Dry yet oily) 
Blackheads on T-Zone & Chin. 
Acne occasionally on the cheeks and forehead.

Alright! Let's get started! 

Purifying Milky Lotion

This is a cleansing lotion. It's to remove those non-waterproof makeup like your foundation. As for your eye & lip make up, do ensure you use the remover that is dedicated to your eyes & lip. 





Even though this is a local company, but their products are all MIT (Made In Taiwan) 




As per it's name, the product has a very milky texture. But I am impressed that it isn't greasy at all! Unlike those cleansing lotion selling in the market, it makes you feel "unclean" and oily after using it. This product is SUPER REFRESHING! Therefore, no worries for oily skin peeps too! 


How to use? 

1. Spread the product evenly on your face. 
2. Massage the product gently onto your skin in circular motion. This will help the product to melt down the make up, sebum & impurities on your skin. 
3. Wet your fingers with water, massage onto your skin till the lotion turns into milky & watery texture. 
4. Use a cotton pad or a cleansing sponge to remove the lotion on your skin. This will help to remove those blackheads that surface on your skin. 
5. Finally, rinse it away with running water. 

One important thing to highlight, ALWAYS double cleanse after using a cleansing product such as cleansing oil, cleansing cream or cleansing lotion. As all these products are just helping you to clean off those make ups as well as sebum. You need to use a facial foam or facial gel to double cleanse. This is to ensure all remaining residue are being washed away and leave your skin clean for your next skincare routine. 




 Aloe Vera Gel

I am sure most of us know the benefit of aloe vera very well. It helps to soothe & moisturize your skin. Minimize pores appearance and many more. 

HerbaLine Aloe Vera Gel is a holy grail to me as it calms my skin so well after sunburn, blackhead extraction. Also, it moisturize my skin and retain or lock in the moisture in my skin the entire day. This definitely helps me to reduce shine throughout the day! 





 Can you see how dewy and moisturized my skin looks like after applying it?! 

Awesome!

How to use? 

1. After toner, apply a layer of Aloe Vera Gel onto your skin. 
2. Gently massage to help it absorb into your skin. 
3. Wait for about 5mins for the gel to fully absorb into your skin, then you may proceed to your next skin care routine. 

You may use this as a serum or a booster but NEVER take it as a moisturizer. As the texture of the product is very dewy, always seal your skin with a layer of cream moisturizer to lock in the moisture. Or it will evaporates! :) 





 This amount of product should be enough for my entire face :) 

Let's see how's my face condition after cleansing. 
My skin gets super dry & tight about 2-3mins after cleansing. You can see my cheeks are flaky and dry!

Before








 After


 Can you see how calm and moisturized my skin looks? No more flaky skin! 
Hooray! 

Then, you may proceed for your emulsion, moisturizer. :) 

That's all for my sharing. Hope you guys like it and it may be helpful for those who are looking for the review of these products. 

Thank you very much for reading! 

Till then... <3 






Tuesday 19 January 2016

[Cosmetic] Peripera Peri's Milk Blur Cream


Hi guys! 

So, Today I am going to do a review for Peripera's Peri's Milk Blur Cream. 
I actually came across this product while I was doing my window shopping in Watson (Which I almost came get out of Watson without buying anything every single time, URGH!). 

As I was just looking around, this white tube of product attracted my sight and I went forward to try it on my palm. At first I thought this would probably turns out to be a very normal make up base which is basically more like a tinted moisturizer with SPF on to help your foundation to adhere to your skin better. 

BUT!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!
I thought to myself that I have just found a base makeup that I have been looking for quite a long time! 

Well, before I proceed to tell you about the magic of this cream, lets take a look at the packaging. 
White tube with pink cap.. hmmm... I have never been a pink person but somehow I find this packaging quite attractive.




I love this packaging as it really does help to keep the product hygienic. 


The product is really really white and as you spread it out, it has a very moist & watery texture . I was afraid that it will looks super white on my face that might make me look pale. 

And TAADAA!
This is the magic I was talking about. 

Take a look at that! It turns out to be surprisingly natural looking and trust me, it last me for at least 8 hours long of radiant and fairer looking skin! 


A before and after look for the application on my face. PLEASE excuse me on my look as I look these photos earlier in the morning while I was getting ready to work TT____TT



OK, I have no idea why my eyes seems to be.... not aligned (?) hahha! 

So I applied the cream all over my face, and I have applied extra product on my under eye area, side of my nose, forehead and anywhere where I would like to hide my redness, darkness etc. 

It kinda works like a CC cream which actually correct the colour and your complexion appears to be more brighter after the application. 



I have been using it as a replacement of my foundation and just set the make up with a thin layer of loose powder. As I have never been a fan of flawless looking skin, it has a very light coverage which I find it enough for me. If you are looking for a perfect flawless looking skin, I would advise you to top with a layer of foundation. 






So, I proceed with eyebrow & lip make up and I am good to go! 

For more information, you can read about it from below, 




For your further information, this cream have no SPF in it and it is suitable to apply it all over your body as well. Legs, hands, or your back. 


Conclusion is, I will highly recommend this product to my friends and maybe you should try them too! 

Alright! That's all for today and THANK YOU for reading. 

Till then... <3